Xi'an lawyer Xu: on the legal aid work women

 

The necessity, women's legal aid work:

The law is done for the public nature of the product, the standard of value judgment it is poverty of vulnerable groups. Whether can enjoy. This is a country under the rule of law to realize the rule of law, the only way which must be passed the rule of good law.

The implementation of economic development and legal system of our country, also can not reach the vulnerable groups of poverty can be enjoyed; it needs the joint efforts of the whole society, to the vast number of women and vulnerable groups to humanistic care, so that they live like real people, to live with dignity, as public welfare of women's law aid work, facing a wide range of people, a lot of work, is to trust Zhong Daoyuan, to colleagues Chester common continue to pay.

Public welfare undertakings in the west especially in American, high social evaluation, engaged in public welfare undertakings of the people affected by the social great affirmation and respect; "I can help others, so I'm happy", "dedication for joy", helping the vulnerable groups, we obtain the spirit of pleasure.

Two,     Analysis of women's marital problems for help

At present, women's legal aid work mainly with respect to marriage, from the six or seven years of consulting and agency in the divorce case, of every hue, because the man was caused by divorce, domestic violence, sexual abuse lead to divorce, the marriage has not be saved to the point where, women have no way, rather than their spouses lift the legal relationship. A philosopher once said: "who can control your life, who can control your mind", the main reason is: Women's poverty, loss of life skills, as the spouse is a "long-term meal ticket", because not self-reliance resulted in the status quo: (1) the man looking for third, and the third is to home living together. His wife has become the nanny, do the ministrant dignity lost; he is as. This is happening in Changan County in a true story. Situation (2) was not limited to young women; the wife have neither learning nor skill, mahjong with all day, no common language and the man, looking for his spouse and can talk about speculation, nor is the young and beautiful.

Three,     To solve the women encounter marriage crisis, attention should be paid to the working methods and measures

1, the microcosmic, marital problems to help women, specific issues to deal with specific, "tailor". First of all, be a good listener, secondly, remember not to judge is not, not for callers to make divorce and decisive, callers who decided to divorce, the analysis of the situation, to mediation, the parties to adjust the interpretation teaching to couple the animosity, really belongs to the complete breakdown of feelings, aid according to the law to provide legal aid to the.

2, the macro, first of all, with the legal knowledge, legal consciousness, self reliant consciousness from consciousness, eliminate the dependence of thought. Suppose, if the spouse is determined to divorce, you should be how to live. Secondly, training women to improve their proficiency in a particular line, poverty, once again, to help women develop their own cultural accomplishment, pay attention to their own image, change your spouse, common development and. To illustrate the importance of it with two examples. For example: a couple living in the countryside for 8 years, and they have a son and a daughter, in order to improve the economic situation at home, her husband into the city to work, after becoming a Real Estate Company mister, the vision is becoming wider and higher, his knowledge, skills, along with the social change, grow, people also become handsome, become elegant, back to the rural home, in the face of their own is still be careless about one's dress, dusty face to the outside world, not the husband, only know that her child care with the washing and cooking. Tell the husband topic: we only how much egg chicken, pig nest how much? While the husband is concerned:EThe age of information and how to promote the development of real estate industry, the result is another husband. In a sense, rupture of marriage, has not pushed the responsibility wife. Finally, we should try our best, maintenance of marriage, marriage and spouse. Business needs money capital, marriage need feeling capital input, the input contains aspects -- including her honor, marriage to live together in peace together, spouse concern, understanding, and respect. If the input is not enough, the marriage will lose money because of poor management and bankruptcy. For example: a female line in the tube, the husband is a big company managers, their marriage is the envy of many people, the female work, take charge as chief of many popular, beautiful and elegant, everyone praised her husband find a good wife, suddenly one day, the man puts forward to divorce, the reason is: his wife at home like a prosecutor, he has endured for many years, his wife is too strong, don't need him, he and his mother didn't want to face a prosecutor all day, he could not find his dignity in front of his wife. The failure of women equality conversion in the not very good role with a spouse.

In short, wide women's legal aid work and complexity, requires us to help, not only to master the legal knowledge, but also to be learned in books about sociology, psychology knowledge, rescuers will need a bowl of water, we must prepare a bucket of water, make all-out efforts, accurately and effectively to provide assistance for our sisters!