America: laws that related to children

   Today, Raven saw an article written from America returnees articles on the web about, was actually one of the reasons after returning home, children may not be subject to legal threats, are angry and mad need not crafty and asked him: "if I were you," will do, but can be directly notice: "if you don't obey I hang you up!" So far, Raven cannot stop laughing, and do not say much, is saying it but really, American does have a lot of law is a threat to the parents, always put some Chinese seem trifles to abuse the child's height, which makes Chinese education of parents from the child to shrink with cold, originally a "be careful of your little PP" would resolve the matter, is struggling in the American, let parents have no authority. If you have time, and listen to some legal Raven gossip I know American about children:

   A child car seat law:

   Neonatal discharge home, police will supervise the parents in their car with the infant seat. This Law Raven early in the baby before it is born heard, in the prenatal classes, volunteer teachers also repeatedly emphasized before the baby was born, have to buy the baby seat, otherwise we are not out of the hospital gate of newborn. Raven was very curious, not everybody is America artificial expensive? How the hospital also hired policeman looks at neonatal discharge? Later, seeing is believing, my baby daughter, really is in the supervision of police comrades to the car, after the inspection certificate safe before release. So you want to, which in America, private cars can not buy it? For example, my two children, will take two seats, three generations of a family of 6 people, and put it under the car?

   Not only is the neonatal discharge, America provisions below 100 pounds of children, must sit seat for children. So, the baby in the American, one of the expense is to buy suits each age children sit children seat: such as neonatal seat, is back running toward the direction of the largest car, generally only 25 pounds, but American law is 1 years old and weigh more than 20 pounds of children, it can change the convertible seat, this is general for 20-40 pound child, again big, need to change into a Booster seat, a child must under 4 years of age, body weight of 40 pounds or more. That I don't know what is according to the set, but at least on my baby is not suitable for: boa 9 month 20 pounds, baby 6 months to 20 pounds, this is a trivial matter, the problem is with the father of two children, was more than the children of the same age, children sitting in the recoil seat so soon the leg extension is not straight, hard in crying, also think about, so big man, who is willing to myself in a small room? Helpless, we advance the substituted the Convertible seat, illegal! When that time every time we go out all tremble with fear in one's boots, for fear of being a policeman caught.

   The Booster child seat, the children to sit up to 100 pounds, the USA children no problem, 5-8 years old basically is almost up to the standard, but for some Chinese children, is up to 18 years old, may not be able to reach 100 pounds (90 kilograms), hard not to do sit down? I haven't heard of concrete age can not take the child seat, but last year baby, 6 year old 45 pounds of boa is told clearly: must sit seat for children.

   So, do not sit again how? Yes, better pray you're lucky, never get caught by the police, a friend I, a time to go out with her 6 year old son, go out, be rather baffling is opened more than 200 dollars a ticket, angry ah, go to the local court, the judge explained to him, are you the car with a the child, obviously less than 80 pounds, and did not sit in on the child seat, it is because it is the first time, fine of so many, understand? Well, to pay $100 in court costs......

   A young children can't be alone:

   In fact, popular in the USA Chinese statement are children under the age of 12 can not be alone! But I asked Americans around, be rather baffling people face: never heard of! But America law does have one on the neglected children. This law is understandable, a small child, be easily out of danger.

   To tell you a place in the Raven own thing: last winter evening, baby parents with baby go out shopping, the child day didn't sleep, we take her out all night, she fell asleep at the wheel, when the outside is cold, afraid of the child is cold, to take a risk, put the baby in the car to sleep, we buy things come out right now. The two of us to get off not to go to the store, Raven guilty, looked round, found a woman standing on our side on the phone, frighten the baby parents immediately back to the car, the man to see us back, received a phone call to teach us a meal: so the children alone more dangerous in the car! Finally, also warned, next time if you do that again, I'll call the police if! Said I could be rendered speechless...... This is worse than the neighborhood!

   Another thing is that USA people's attention for the child's safety America: school, usually around three o'clock in the afternoon after school, but any working parents, are unlikely to get up at three o'clock. We need to spend money to send him to the boa after-school care classes after school, until the parents pick, among them, children out of school to need to pay to the managed class teacher in the hand, to sign, we pick up the kids from the managed class, also needs the signature of the entire process, children always in adult supervision. Which stage by which people responsible for the accident. Where will we see a child of their own keys hanging home scene?

   A child can not be beaten

   In USA, Chinese in a dozen children, immediately think of the film "Gua Sha". The Chinese were arrested for playing children, many examples of lost custody of children. In fact, not only the Chinese in the United States, other people also often occur due to beat and scold the child be deprived of custody. But, Chinese proverb is: "do not yield"...... So the problem is particularly abrupt and unacceptable.

   One of my MBA friends experience is especially interesting, when their first child was born, don't know why I cried every day, but a cry for an hour to stop, make new parents terribly fatigued, feel helpless, had to go to the hospital to see the doctor frequently, to the doctor for advice how to let the children check cry. Results one day the doctor suspicious, so they ask you: Is it right? Cruelty to children? The children make face sallow parents immediately roused: doctor, you have a look, we are his abuse is!

 
   It should be said, Americans also hit a child, a legal American parents have the right to decide how to raise the children, on the other hand, supervised by government parents cannot abuse on children's rights and responsibilities. Once the government think parents abuse their power, so as to protect the child. So in the American, if you really want to "hands-on" shortness of breath, child education, there are a few remember: first, do not hit children in public; second, do not leave scars in children; third, you should ensure that your child won't say to the teacher. Without them, so the safest way or not to play, or, really want to play, you can imagine: guys, back again when you China good clean! Hey in the stars and stripes of the mu of land, we, or honestly according to house rules do.

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