The repair man love touched American legal

Today is the first one on the network to see the story, have a look you have what experience. We look at the story although easily, but also need to find what you need from them, such as children's education:

There was an old man, life on the shoe to maintain life. His mend shoes booth placed in Boston at the time American Court on the street outside the. When the court, he always put shoes stand, with the flow of people to enter the court, to attend various trials.

One morning, a be shabby in dress with remorse for the young man was brought to the court. The old man years of observation of prisoners by shoe repair experience, this young man is a public places in the alcoholics. At that time, in the Massachusetts law, "alcoholism" is only a minor crime, only the defendant commissioned a small amount of bail, will be sentenced to a year in prison guard "behavior". At this time, the old man looked at her face full of regret, fear of youth, the hearts of a l a compassion.

He was sure that the youth is a poor man, it is difficult to come up with bail. In court, the old man calmly to judge, said he is willing to do the guarantor bail out, young. The old man's considerate and warmhearted and youth regrets, deeply touched the judges. He then suddenly have a brain wave, agreed to the request, ordered the extension of three week trial.

Three weeks later, the old man was accompanied by the defendant to return to court. The old man asked the judge to show on one page report -- in the name of God swear to testify, the youth three weeks a teetotaler, has been hard work, take care of my grandfather, my spare time to do volunteer work. The report also young district police and the church pastor signature. The judge see exultation, immediately announced the release of youth, and symbolically to fine him a penny. The young man became a good citizen in a lifetime drinking, law-abiding industrious.

Seventeen years later, the old man for a total of more than 2000 people repair guarantee, his love changed more than 2000 people life; the old man's kindness but also affected the American judicial system civilization, so that later Massachusetts officially passed a law, set up a special "Probation" mechanism, the implementation of the "new criminal justice system with both a benevolent mind and heart". The old man is more than a hundred years ago was mending shoes USA into law in history, known as the "father of probation" John Augustus?. He has to leave any influence as to American president.

The story I repeat here, also ended. Do not know if you read, what experience? I think a lot of people in the month, after reading this story, will admire Augustus. A repair man, just use the mercy heart, could save more than 2000 people's life, its performance is worse than some school teacher, is really a not teachers! The repair man Augustus did what? A simple to the extreme: for those who make mistakes, a chance!

From the perspective of development, the child is young, immature, their development process, is to make mistakes, and learn from, internalization, which also mature. From the perspective of cognition, the child's mistake, not because of lack of ability, just don't understand our "rule". From the behavior perspective, there is no shortage of power, control, and some is "make trouble", this is a challenge to children in the face of pressure and resistance.

So, in the face of the child's mistakes, as parents, we must see clearly, the wrong type of children, so that they can respond smartly. So the child can from mistakes, lessons learned, grow. If you only know the rebuke, beatings and other simple and crude way, the child may say "next dare not", but don't know where is wrong, in the heart also feel guilty is not wrong, or to make the same mistake. In fact, the reason is simple, from the child's thinking, I have already paid the price for my behavior, is your "scolded, beaten," has been both, the next is the next.

Now that the children would "regular" mistakes, then we should be like the story inside the shoe repair old and the judge, leaving a mistake, and then correct the error space for children. Need to remind you is, if the child does not admit mistakes, one may not recognize the "error", you have to think whether your standards are too adult? The two is the child most likely do not trust you, be afraid to admit that not only not be tolerated, but will "frankly more strict".

In solving the wrong child, actually not difficult also. The child is innocent, many adult "trick" is not, so you can from the child's language, body language, clearly see the children mistake, is what type of, respectively, to solve is. Among them, the most important is, if the child has been aware of the mistake, then you should be like the story inside the shoe repair old man, give the child a "step", if you just step by step, the result will only run counter to one's desire, even cause against future more serious. (author: Well, a respectful person)