On college students interpersonal communication

     Students are the most basic college students interpersonal, communication with the students, the most common is the most complex. On the one hand, between the students of similar age, interests, hobbies, and learning in a collective and life. Therefore, relatively easy to get along with; on the other hand, between the classmate in living habits, personality and so there is a certain difference, so in the communication process will inevitably conflict this or that

Compared with society, the university is a relatively pure "ivory tower", but also cannot do without interpersonal communication. Nowadays, with the increasingly open university, college and social intercourse increase day by day, the society some complex interpersonal relationship in university life has projection. Therefore, the harmonious interpersonal relationship is an indispensable condition of psychological health of college students, but also an important way for college students to get mental health. College students should pay attention to in the process of interpersonal communication:

   Many interpersonal conflict face psychology students, all occurred in the small things not what principle problem, often is the collision, one has no intention of casual words hurt, or a small profit, they just say hello, say an apology, also all right, but both "angry", not to put a low profile, the quarrel. What is more, a keep, a pull head broken and bleeding, fight, and later regret incessantly. From a psychological perspective, it is both in the maintenance of self esteem with inappropriate methods, namely the typical face psychology. If who apologizes first broke the face, who is low head in the face of threat, who is a coward, and layers of upgrade, ended in tragedy.

Psychological impulse students in a specific physiological development period, self-control is weak, it is easy to impulse. Such as riding a bike collided and similar to a lot of things, everybody does not want to happen, it is sometimes difficult to decide which is right and which is wrong, the humility to live together peacefully, even if their own rational, can also be a good word, however, students often impulsive, truculent, messed up.

Between the classmate frank, mutual exchange of needed products of psychological tolerance, is conducive to enhance friendship, reduce friction, unnecessary conflict. But in the exchange of students and have differences of opinion or other errors, you are language is blunt, straight its details, or the like, to the position of the other side to think, gently let them accept your opinion, will produce different effect. In addition, a sense of humor helps to have tensions ease ease; a few words can make a distress scene disappeared in a joke.

Sealing psychology of interpersonal harmony one manifestation is willing to communicate with people, however, some students for a variety of reasons to form closed psychology in different extent, hinder the formation of its normal interpersonal relationship. Some because of introversion, weak intensity of emotional impulses, exposure is not obvious, be mistaken for a closed. In fact, they are of deep feeling, can help people to the end; some are all day long bustling about, because of the intense work and heavy housework tired, always in a tired state, nature also have little enthusiasm, as long as the tension relaxation, their enthusiasm can be mobilized quickly; some are caused because the the wounds of the soul. If used to treat people with absolute sincerity, but the results by cheating, plot, so people gradually with fear, not easily reveal their feelings; or academic frustrated in its eyes, the world is covered with a layer of dark colors, lost confidence, lost to the pursuit of life, be opinionated be cynical, new things, new activities to arouse his enthusiasm, can not see their own power to transform the world, negative mix, this life. For the psychological closed students, the most important is to change efforts, unremitting self-improvement. We need to be more passionate about, to help them, not simply to blame, even isolated them.

   Hope that the majority of the 09-2 class for reading this article, also hope that the administrative class 09-2 relationship is getting better and better, more and more unity in our class, the class two strongest. The two classes of people firstAgainClass, I.

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