Life to pain

                   -His friends die young Zheng Ding and professor of Renmin Law School

The last day in October, is located in the public school of Management Professor Zheng Hui Lou, set the obituary sees impressively. Professor Zheng Ding in the44Old gold his final curtain call, life is deplorable, also a sigh.

Although I and Zheng only belong to the unilateral know -- I know him, he may not recognize me, but from my first Zheng set up to now, has been nearly20Year. When the one you witnessed the nearly half the people in the course of naturally or half unconsciously, will never be reproduced within your horizon, this news will let you linger in the heart, too. So, a few days later when I saw the obituary again, I rushed into my office, the class a few minutes before, open the computer, to as far away as Macao millet sent such a neither head nor signed mail:

"Zheng Ding Professor10Month26DayDied. Without friendship, there is sadness."

I know, millet came to Beijing last time, visited disease in Zheng set. This email will let Mi Jun's sincere Miss condenses into a grief. The honest heart heavy meters Jun, perhaps is a kind of liberation.

I know the background of RUC law school teachers, die young and in more than one Zheng set. In recent years, Zhou Zhenxiang Zhang Wenbin, She Hongrong teacher and classmates, and early teacher Liu Ding and Zhang Jie the brother, not let people excited. Among them, Zhang Wenbin only36Years old, and Zhang Jiegang 30 early, the child is still in its infancy.

I remember many years ago, Ming Shun students once said, there are two places most can change a person: it is a prison, two Babaoshan. You know people die young, will give you something to think about before how don't want something, for example, the meaning of life, or, how we live such problems.

Some people often put the early success, attributed to the attitude of worldly possessions. But I think, those who die young, are not necessarily overwhelmed career, family and psychological burden. Most of the early success, simply because they are bad luck, because they are not lucky, and work related attitude is not much. Here, Chinese used "unfortunate" one word, is insightful.

But anyway, for individuals, once life termination, so-called business is meaningless. Although hair old man to man's death is divided into "lighter than a goose feather" and "be weightier than Mount Tai", but that is the foreign people. For those in life or psychological dependence on your friends, your health, will always be weightier than Mount Tai -- whether you in the society is successful or humble.

And.50Years before died, usually the parents will have at least one alive. Therefore,50Years ago died, often have white hair black haired man who sent the tragic scene. Black dead all down, and the white hair the living will and why? The life to be pain.

In my opinion, there are two to the bitter. Dear son to support and not to be, is the son of man to the pain and sorrow; white haired people who send black hair, is for parents to pain and suffering. May those young soul, all the teachers and students, friends bless people's Congress law school, not to sad, no to pain.

The Buddha said, the bitter life. The end of life, but also the end of the ocean. From this point of view to think, the deep love and deep love the dead relatives and friends, or when your weight, in torrential rain tears, strong, happy with the delay in the kingdom of heaven to meet period. Notice, the kingdom of heaven, not lonely.

Thus, mourning friends die young Zheng Ding and professor of Renmin law school. The dead, placed a grief; for the living, to send a blessing.