Accident

Psychologist Wu Jian

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   She is an entrepreneur, refined and cultured. A friend in the lead, go eat supper.

   While eating, we drink, chat, talk, or very happy. Especially my friend, very funny, very amusing. However, slowly she talking about this year's car accident. She led the staff to Nanping meeting, night, rain, slippery road, driver's mobile phone and, although she still remind. Suddenly, the car roll3Circle, throw in the road next to the mud slope. Don't know how much time, they wake up, have been thrown out bad car, since they still alive. We just have some skin injury, is such. She pulled up the clothes, the body is still green. You to comfort, escape from death in a great catastrophe, set the hands. After the traffic police to come, to do a survey, traffic police also dare not believe, said they were very lucky. However, she still want the car, to Nanping city tour, and get good grades.

   She is very concerned about the staff, as employees for the family, for the children. She felt sorry for two employees, if the dead? There is a staff of bleeding more, she felt guilty. She also said, that time, there are many omen of disaster, why she doesn't use other means to the city of Nanping. However, she is a strong woman, feel able to cope, they should not weak. However, with her rich psychological resources, can be completely through the crisis. She has said repeatedly, can not say, to be strong. Two employees are often a nightmare, scene, sleep is not good, influence.

   I take the initiative to her question, I put forward some suggestions: one is the nature of the problem, this is should pay barriers, met great accident, psychological reaction after the disaster occurred. Degree and reaction time, and the nature of the incident, severity, psychological quality, social support. They appear such reaction is normal, can understand, also can through the; two is to help, is the correct response, positive coping. Consider themselves lucky, injuries are minor, should be able to comfort themselves. Of course, trauma need aggressive treatment, close observation. In general, most people can survive the crisis, if not, can strive for social support, such as parents, friends, classmates' help, an escort service. If the circumstances are serious, be psychological counseling, such as some flashbacks and other psychological reactions, can have psychological techniques to solve. Even the use of medication. Of course, positive psychology is to learn, is any one thing, can be a different point of view, if from the positive side, will produce positive emotion; three is holding therapy, already very late, drank a lot, I suddenly put forward the psychological treatment had a hug therapy, you can try, she accepted. I also joke demonstrates a hug, she is also very careful. Staring at each other, slowly forward, with open arms, embrace together, not back, experience the warmth. She laughed, and then began to cry, cry very sad, and constantly said that he should not have the mistake. I also simple comfort, support. This is not her fault, we understand her. About to cry15Minutes, her mood gradually stabilized. Then wipe the tears, smiled and said to me: Thank you! The next day, she told me, feel better, can work meeting, thank!