Beijing Youth Legal Aid and Research CenterAll the teachers:

How do you do. First of all, I would like to pay tribute to you! I'm searching lawyer Tong Lihua information on the Internet to find you. Look at yourIntroductionLater, I have a strong resonance, because I am a"Juvenile center theory"!

I was a mother, because pay attention to education, then focus on the problems of marriage and family, foundEducation has a close relation with marriage and family. At the same time, I was a math enthusiasts, like to see mathematical vision problems. The characteristics of mathematics is,It is not sure "what" question, it said, if it is what, then how. Since all say parents love children, why parents always because of the relationship between husband and wife and the impact on the child's love? Because the parents is a prerequisite for children's love? If conditional word, what is the condition? Don't marital harmony is the premise of parents love their children? If there is no prerequisite parents love their children, why parents marriage crisis cause the deterioration of the situation of a child's life? Don't say that, once parents marriage crisis, the law allows parents because marriage crisis caused deterioration of the situation of children living there can not be the responsibility of the parents?

It is the thinking on these issues, I found,Can say, the law is not wrong, wrong is the parents in the drilling legal loopholes; can also say, the law is wrong, because the law has the guiding role of morality than stronger, since it can drill through the legal loopholes to satisfy one's desire and need not bear the legal consequences, why not drill?Parents can because marriage crisis and escape the support of minor children is the responsibility and obligation, because the law only defines a legal relationship of the parents of a minor: the relationship between husband and wife.In fact, the legal relationship between the parents of minors should include two aspects: the relationship between husband and wife and the "joint custody of minor children relationship".Because the current legal system is not clearly parents"Joint custody of minor children relationship"This concept and legal effect, the parents once the marriage crisis, is honest too hard!

On the one hand is ingrained feudal thought, on the other hand, is the freedom and equality, the marriage of men and women liberation of human nature, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, sisters in law relations, drinking or gambling, extramarital affairs, work pressure, self worth and so on, tangled together, is a challenge and test on the relationship between husband and wife,To greet the new life coming after the passion, parenting long and arduous process often make much challenge and test the relationship between husband and wife is more subtle and nervous. At this time, the parents of a minor child rearing responsibilities and obligations are often submerged in the parents' marriage crisis, ignored or even forgotten.For minors, parents is not the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between husband and wife, is to be of no great importance, it is important to the parents Is it right? Can rationally love children and parents love their children the problem have good relations of cooperation.Only when both parents to maintain good relations of cooperation in bringing up children, can guarantee the best interests of the minor children.Good relationship between husband and wife does not necessarily lead to good co parenting relationship, sometimes, good relationship between husband and wife is just at the expense of good co parenting relationship for the price, those to the two world and send their children to do not understand the scientific nursing elderly or nanny case is common (of course, those who live to go out to work is not included).

I always believe that,On the common children love is feeling the best foundation!If two people love is not enough, can not be said of a couple, don't say one day the couple hundred days grace, saying only that children of the eternal bridge (if the parents are enough physical sex child), also can become the friend, at least not hostile! Every adult has the option of reproductive rights, but also have the option of non reproductive rights, if the choice of birth right, should also must undertake the duty to bring up.The duty to bring up"Not only is responsible for his daily life, more important is to establish the value of his basic view, outlook on life, perfect personality, including aesthetic orientation and interest, guide the establishment of learning, his lasting interest, and help him learn the ropes and method of learning, to18When these fundamentals are good, basic needs to the storms of life and life, work of later, just as the parents of the basic obligation. It is the responsibility of parents at least, need not return, not a debt, more than an investment.("Ming blue and whiteThe"Every man for his gas") sorry, I observed phenomenon is,Once the marital problems, one side of a minor child rearing responsibilities and obligations are always affected by the other party and not support.Divorce is not the cause of deterioration of a child's life, the cause of deterioration of the situation of a child's life is one parent or both the children do not have enough reason to love!When parents more is carrying the "love child" banner, fight for the interests of the parents themselves.

The minor is everyone experiences the role, however, because the law is not perfect, the daughter-in-law Aocheng woman, good pain is forgotten, the conflict of interest between adults and minors, especially in adult parents and minor conflicts between children, minors is in a weak position. In order to regulate the parents support of minor children responsibilities and obligations, to prevent parents due to lack of awareness or marriage crisis and escape the support of minor children responsibility and obligation, legal protection to the healthy growth of minors rights in the family, parents should be clear as soon as possible legislation"Joint custody of minor children relationship"This concept and legal effect!

In the course of motherhood, I deeply appreciate the parents of a minor child's influence was so imprint is engraved on my heart! I is a reflection and Introspection of the mother, although not say he is a good mother, but you can examine oneself, feeling no shame to say, he is a good awareness of the mother, is the so-called "sincerity for, though not, not far away." The above is how IStrengthen the legal protection of the right to the healthy growth of minors in the familyPoint to ponder. I am a professional non legal, but with his knowledge of the law and the ideas generated, inappropriate please legal professional criticism! However, with me a plain and open her heart, I think my view is a social value of the. The child's growth process is irreversible, if you think my view is a social value and can play a role and the benefit of the family, so also do some contribution for the harmonious society.Dared not country, this is the only reason and objective I want to communicate with you!

If you want to, may have a lookMy blog, in the blog, the more I presented my views. Maybe my point of view is very naive, but I can say is very carefully, in order toThe rights of minorsCry cry, although very weak.

Once again, your honor! Although we are not together, but as the"Juvenile center theory", I think that is with you friends, because I think"A case can only help a person, but a law can help a lot of people "," junior strong Guoqiang, young progress is in progress"! Whether or not my point can be recognized by the community, I will use this network platform, as in the past attention"The rights of minors"(I put the" rights of minors "referred to as"Zi Quan"), as Annan said:"The most holy faith is the world of children's belief, the most important duty is to ensure that children's rights are respected, the welfare of the children are protected, so that they stay away from fear and poverty, grow up in a peaceful environment.""Once we were children. We all hope that the children happy, this has been and will continue to be one of the most common human cherished desire."

Finally, in particular to lawyer Tong Lihua said! Although I did not have his spirit, but I appreciate and support him in that spirit! To pay tribute to the Tong Lihua lawyer!

I wish all the best!

                  A conviction that "right" ideal will come true"Juvenile center theory"

                                    2010-3-18